I have hesitated to share any particular prayers for gathering together in-person again because it feels so unique to each circumstance. There is something particular about this experience.
It involves a particular group of people. It is the unique story of how the pandemic took hold in that exact location among those blessed souls and maybe there are universals. There are things we have all experienced in this pandemic but we are not all in the same place as this shift to in-person worship occurs.
I can’t think about this possibility — which for me is just a possibility as I continue to worship online with my sweet Texas church and have no options for in-person worship in our German city — still, I can’t think of this possibility without thinking about music. I remember vividly standing in my kitchen when The More We Get Together played for the third time that day on my kids’ Pandora station and I burst into tears. And then, there is this beloved hymn that closed every worship service in the early days when we thought this would only be a few weeks.
I will never hear this song again without remembering what it felt like to sing these words through broken sobs to my computer screen. At that point, I knew I was moving. I didn’t know that there would ever be a return to this group of people or this sanctuary. I had no idea we would move again within less than a year. And maybe especially because of my story, I am curious what it would be like to sing or hear this song again at the close of worship back in the sanctuary.
Music, as you know dear pastor, changes us. It gives us a melody to our struggle and a harmony to our hope. It pinpoints our memory to a particular time and place and congregations are full of these memories. So, what have been the songs that carried your people in this season? What would it look like to sing those songs again?
I might be extra tempted to shell out some extra dollars from the worship budget for some musicians to help us celebrate this reunion but I won’t assume that that is possible for every congregation. I know too that each church has chosen a different date for this reunion and that makes it really hard to choose focus texts but I’ll go with some old favorites including Psalm 133, Isaiah 65, and Ephesians 4:1-16 because it’s actually in the Revised Common Lectionary on the first of August if you happen to have chosen that day to gather. No matter what the chosen day might be, I pray these prayers might bless your regathering.
These prayers are still written for one voice as my other church in Pennsylvania — who I think you’ll be hearing about more and more — has wisely decided not to have responsive readings in their regathering. I want to honor that commitment but go ahead and adapt these prayers as they fit your worship experience.
Call to Worship
Inspired by Psalm 133 and Isaiah 65
How very good and pleasing it is when people come together through wireless routers and cables buried in the earth to pop up on each other’s screens with a familiar smile that remind us again that we your people, O God, are made for community. We dwell together in harmony. Or at least we tried after servers crashed and internet was lost when we wanted most to be together and praise your wonder and grace. We tried so hard, O God. And now, now we are all together again in the same place to worship and praise so that it really does feel like expensive oil poured over our heads, running down our collarbones with blessing and joy. There is such joy today. There is delight in this fellowship even when we know that all is not as it was. We are not the same people who last gathered here in this blessed place. We have become a new creation in your sight and so we pray that our praise will have such movement for the people we have become and the God that has shown us how all things become new again.
If this prayer sounds a tiny bit familiar, it is adapted from one I wrote in August of last year for Proper 15A when Psalm 133 was last in the Revised Common Lectionary. I want there to be something that recognizes what has been lost. There is a nod to it in the previous prayer but I imagine it will be strange to be gathered back together again and know that there are some missing. Some might still be online as many families with small children may well choose but more than 600,000 have died in the United States now. It’s hard to believe that that toll won’t impact churches in some way.
For those using an outdoor space, I wonder about using a fence to create a community weaving as part of this remembering. Maybe a shape like the church building or logo that could be filled in with scraps of colorful cloth or even yarn.
If this is happening in the sanctuary or far from a fence, a temporary loom could be constructed. People might need to be reminded to socially distance as music is played and they each come forward to add their bit of color but I don’t think it would take much more than a reminder. I think it’s worth the effort to make something beautiful to call us into this new creation.
Or if that all sounds too daunting because it’s been a hell of a year and you don’t have time for something so large scale, maybe steal this wedding guest book idea to make a large poster board that can be a focal point in the narthex or even in the worship space. I might tweak the language in the following prayer to draw a stronger connection to the chosen ritual.
Prayer for Re-Membering
Inspired by Ephesians 4:1-16
We have come this far with all humility and gentleness. Or so we pray O God. We pray we've had patience though we know we did not rest easy in this time apart. We have been broken open by what we could not comprehend and what has taken to many lives so that we cannot look around today without remembering what we have lost. We pray that we might truly bear one another in love and grief and hope. Today, O God, we pray you will take the lonely remnants, the frustration, the grief and the shreds of hope with re-member us into one body and spirit. Gather who we once were with what we have lost and all that still remains uncertain to equip us for ministry and the building up of the body of Christ. We have been so tossed and blown about by every kind of thing since we first heard the word coronavirus and we need you, O God. We need you to be above us all and through us all and in every bit of this new creation we are becoming together. There are variants and variables we cannot control but we pray you will take our whole lives, knit/graft us together and build us up in love and truth. Amen.
That’s all I’ve got for right now because my children are totally losing it. Still, I hope you’ll share your hopes and dreams for this regathering. Or if you have already shared in this reunion, please share with us what most inspired you about this first in-person worship.
I’m praying for you, dear pastor. I’m praying for you so much.
Weaving Bridges by Laurie Wilson